'You want to beat Peter?' she asked.
'No,' he answered.
'Beat the buggers. Then come home and see who notices Peter Wiggin anymore.
Look him in the eye when all the world loves and reveres you. That'll be defeat
in his eyes, Ender. That's how you win.'
'You don't understand,' he said.
'Yes I do.'
'No you don't. I don't want to beat Peter.'
'Then what do you want?'
'I want him to love me.'
- Ender's Game